You don't make peace with friends. You make it with very unsavory enemies.
I do believe states' rights was a sound doctrine that got hijacked by some unsavory customers for a while - like 150 years or so. I'm professionally obliged to believe that knowledge is better than ignorance but some kinds of forgetting are OK with me.
We fear to know the fearsome and unsavory aspects of ourselves but we fear even more to know the godlike in ourselves.
I know there are people who don't like their audience or like the experience of being recognized or celebrated but my audience has been very good - they don't bother me and when they do contact me it's usually on the nicest possible terms.