You know all that really matters is that the people you love are happy and healthy. Everything else is just sprinkles on the sundae.
I worked at an ice cream parlor called Chadwicks. We wore old-timey outfits and had to bang a drum play a kazoo and sing 'Happy Birthday' to people while giving them free birthday sundaes. Lots of ice cream scooping and $1 tips.
If you can dream it then you can achieve it. You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want.