People lose people we lose things in our life as we're constantly growing and changing. That's what life is is change and a lot of that is loss. It's what you gain from that loss that makes life.
I'm a really huge fan of the old romantic comedies from the '30s and '40s......
You do have to change things as warfare changes.
Most of us women like men you know it's just that we find them a constant disappointment.