I think having a child can really change you if you're open to it.
There are older men with younger women but you don't see a lot of older women...
You do have to change things as warfare changes.
Look I want what's good for everybody. I want to promote good state education for all. I want to raise standards for all kids irrespective of race and class but why can't they all just do what I say when I know I'm right?
