A life can get knocked into a new orbit by a car crash a lottery win or just a bleary-eyed consultant giving bad news in a calm voice.
Every relationship has its own language. It takes a long time to evolve and...
I wanted to end my life so bad and was in my car ready to go down that ramp...
So obviously any religion embodies some form of rules and expectations for behavior and even sometimes consequences and they don't want to hear any of that.
