You can't just trust to luck you have to really listen to what that character is telling you.
It is so important to get respect for what you do and at the same time give it.
The betrayal of trust carries a heavy taboo.
I understand a woman who validates herself by getting attention from the opposite sex. I have a friend who is that to a T... Doesn't mean she isn't a good person. That's a funny character to play.
