The sea speaks a language polite people never repeat. It is a colossal scavenger slang and has no respect.
I doubt if you can have a truly wild party without liquor.
Lately I did a film called All I Want for Christmas and it was well received....
You treat a kid with respect and as an adult you talk to them as if they're smart people. But you don't throw at them the trappings of adulthood and you know the darker stuff.