The same principles which at first view lead to skepticism pursued to a certain point bring men back to common sense.
That neither our thoughts nor passions nor ideas formed by the imagination...
The most positive men are the most credulous.
But marriage goes in waves. You've got to be patient. People bail and give up on their marriages way too early. They just don't put the work and the effort into it. You've got to suck up your ego a lot of times because that can be a big downfall.