Humor is a serious thing. I like to think of it as one of our greatest earliest natural resources which must be preserved at all cost.
I'm 65 and I guess that puts me in with the geriatrics. But if there were...
Humor results when society says you can't scratch certain things in public...
It seems I have a hard time being attracted to someone unless I respect what they do on some level. Otherwise I would feel disdain for them. Which is not always pleasant in a relationship. Sometimes it's fun though.