If you hug to yourself any resentment against anybody else you destroy the bridge by which God would come to you.
When we long for life without difficulties remind us that oaks grow strong...
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
I'd say to any woman get out of that bad relationship that's turning you into a shell of your former self. Learn from it and get out. Then wait enjoy yourself and your friends because when what you want comes along you'll spot it.
