If I were to say 'God why me?' about the bad things then I should have said 'God why me?' about the good things that happened in my life.
Trust has to be earned and should come only after the passage of time.
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
My mother listened to all the news from the camp during the strike. She said little especially when my father or the men who worked for him were about I remember her instinctive and unhesitating sympathy for the miners.