He who learns must suffer. And even in our sleep pain that cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart and in our own despair against our will comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God.
What is there more kindly than the feeling between host and guest?
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
I always say be humble but be firm. Humility and openness are the key to success without compromising your beliefs.
