Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.
Follow your instincts. That's where true wisdom manifests itself.
I loved my 17 years with R.E.M. but I'm ready to reflect assess and move on...
But the ability to articulate what you are doing to be clear about it and to stick to it is I think the essence of political leadership.